Monday, July 29, 2013

Three Warning Signs Poor Mentality

Continuing study of the origins of human success saboteurs poor mentality, here are three danger signs of poor mentality in people that we can recognize the most common:

1. Poor mentality danger sign # 1: Money, money, money.

Signs that you have a poor mentality in your head is when you do not stop thinking about money, money, money, money and money.

Let me ask, "What do you think about money? When you think about money? Are you often worried about not having enough money, or are wondering how can you get? Have you thought about what your reason for wanting the money, and the possibility of that you could get all of it, even without money? Did you feel the need to always have money? "

Do you feel jealous when people are getting more money from you, "How could he be more money than me, huh? salary is greater ?" Jealousy and similar expressions, although not spoken by the mouth.

Many people are poor or mentally poor who spend their time and energy to think about money, or more precisely, think of the fact that they do not have (enough) money.

    I again do not have money ya ... ,
    When I have money ya ... ,
    If I had the money ... ,
    Later when I had the money ... ,
    I wish I had the money ... ,
    How do I get money ya ...

Previously when I was poor (and poor mentality), questions such as the above that which adorn my daily life. So are the activities that struggling with money, of which record all forms of expenditure from small to large at the end of each day, to calculate whether the money would be enough until the end of the month, to continue wondering about how the rich got their money.

If no job offer, which I first ask how much the pay is. If invited to a business, how thankfully.

I focused on the life and especially in the absence of money in my life.

There is no end I think about the things I can not buy because there is no money, and the things that I might buy if I had the money.

I often fantasized about money raining from the sky.

I also often envy, and envy instead, on those who are rich, who seem happy to continue her life, always have the money for whatever they want.

money is like a butterfly, when pursued even elusive

In fact, money is like a butterfly the more you chase with aggressive, even more difficult for you to catch.

Conversely, when we stopped pursuing, could suddenly butterflies are approaching and even landed, when we are busy just enjoying the beauty of flowers.

2. Poor mentality danger sign # 2: "I hate the rich!"

As noted above, because our thoughts often dwell on the lack of money that we experience, then we are so often compares himself with rich people.

Yes, who would not want to be rich like them, can be and buy whatever they want.

The important question is why would anyone who is not characterized by the same poor or suffering.

This is what we should be looking out, for us to imitate.

But usually we are even more focused on our envy of the things that are not owned by rich people we have.

Lethal four words that your success

Of the millions of words that you use every day, there are 4 words that turn off your success, like a poison that will destroy the entire fibril success of your life.

When you use these words, whether consciously or not, most likely you will not be as successful as you want. Successful or even not at all.

When you use the 4 word assassin is successful, the success is guaranteed you will be away and was caught in a "traffic jam" with the same life that have you suffered, probably until many years into the future, until you stop using words that are lethal This success in your life. Because, no one can be successful if he has a habit of using the 4th word "dangerous" enemy's success.

So is the 4 words that this is the greatest enemy of success? (Can we have a drum roll, please ...)
"I already know that."

Why is dangerous to 4 words?

Why to 4 words "I already know that" or all sorts of variants is very dangerous and deadly to your success?

That's because, once you start thinking that you already know something, let alone then pressed it again with the words you say, "I already know it", then when it's also your mind closed, even on something that you actually do not know. Just closed, hermetically sealed.

No more motivation to dig deeper or find out more.

And as a result, became no longer possible for you to learn new things, because the learning process is stalled.

When in fact it might even think you are no longer novel also has elements that we do not fully know. We may not know everything with complete and final. There are always new possibilities.

But once the four deadly words spoken earlier, our mind will feel no longer need to figure out things and new possibilities, which as a result, learning and growing process that allows us to create new findings, new breakthroughs, and has become even wider horizons were stalled.

And with the cessation of the things that is a necessary component of success achievement of this life, supposing also stopped our lives.

Successful because of ego death

Worse, all of this happens because of our ego talking.

Those who say "I already know it" is often said that because it is based unwillingness to look foolish.

And the desire to feel smart and already knew all this make them shut the doors of learning and new growth.

And, in fact we can always learn from everyone and every situation.

Second egoism that makes people think the mindset "I already know" is derived from misplaced pride.

Many people feel have achieved success and therefore considers this world and its contents as an arena of competition with each other.

Who's the best, that's what made it to success, according to their logic.

People like this, would not be "able" when it should learn from the people who they deem less successful, people who they consider to be smaller because they were under the stairs achievement.

"What, I asked for advice on my boys? What does the world?" they said.

In fact, not readers, the world is not going to say anything. He will not judge you just because you do not know something and dare to ask.

Otherwise the world would be proud. All achievements and discoveries in the world started from a question, which sparked curiosity, which is based on ignorance.